Quotes about Marriage
There is no greater place for damage (than marriage) because there is no greater place for glory.
— John Eldredge
Marriage is the sanctuary of the heart. You have been entrusted with the heart of another human being. Whatever else your life's great mission will entail, loving and defending this heart next to you is part of your great quest.
— John Eldredge
Emasculation happens in marriage as well. Women are often attracted to the wilder side of a man, but once having caught him they settle down to the task of domesticating him. Ironically, if he gives in he'll resent her for it, and she in turn will wonder where the passion has gone.
— John Eldredge
It is not love to ignore your spouse's sin, or brokenness, or immaturity.
— John Eldredge
God lures us into marriage through love and sex and loneliness, or simply the fact that someone finally paid attention - all those reasons that you got married in the first place. It doesn't really matter, he'll do whatever it takes. He lures us into marriage and then he uses it to transform us.
— John Eldredge
We are, all of us, utterly committed and deeply devoted to our style, our way, our approach to life. We have absolutely no intention of giving it up. Not even for love. So God creates an environment where we have to. It's called marriage.
— John Eldredge
The authors challenge that the marriage in which one cannot express disappointment has become an idol — The Thing that Cannot Be Questioned.
— John Eldredge
This is why the apply some principles approach to marriage improvement doesn't work. So long as we choose to turn a blind eye to how we are fallen as men or women, and to the unique style of relating that we have forged out of our sin and brokenness, we will continue to do damage to our marriages.
— John Eldredge
If one of you is walking through a dark valley personally of course it affects the marriage. But it is not about the marriage.
— John Eldredge
Something has gone wrong in us, very wrong indeed. So wrong that we have to be told that joy is found not in having another man's wife, but in having our own. But the point is not the law; the point is the joy.
— John Eldredge
Few men looked on her without becoming, in a certain fashion, her lovers. But it was the kind of love that made them not less true, but truer, to their own wives.
— John Eldredge
Sex can be such a stark barometer for a marriage.
— John Eldredge