Quotes about Self-reflection

Rather than complaining about inconsequential little irritations, I'm asking God to get right to the root of the problem, to eradicate the dry rot and fix the cracks in my foundation. I need Him to show me how to love Him and how to love His people. Even the ones I don't like - even myself.

When I ask God to change my actions, that honesty about my own inconsistent behaviors forces me not to be so hard on other believers. Humble acknowledgment of the plank in my own eye gives me more patience with the specks in everyone else's (see Matthew 7:1-5). Instead of pointing the finger at others, let's allow God to examine us.

Since we can't change what we can't identify, ask God to show you any areas of your life that may be harmful to you, offensive to the people around you, or displeasing to God himself.

This is the very perfection of a man, to find out his own imperfections.

Vanity can create a very cruel space for you if you don't know how to manage it.

We do not choose the vessel we're given, Iola Anne, but we choose what we pour out and what we keep inside," she say.

I've finally come to fully understand that you can't fix another person. You can't fix the past. You can only change your way of reacting to it.

woman's past need not predict her future. She can dance to new music if she chooses. Her own music. To hear the tune, she must only stop talking. To herself, I mean. We're always trying to persuade ourselves of things.

But ain't it always the way, Birdie, that the easiest faults to find in other people are the ones you got yourself?

I've finally come to fully understand that you can't fix another person. You can't fix the past. You can only change your way of reacting to it. You have to wait for other people to fix themselves.

May comments, "We're always trying to persuade ourselves of things." Are

At the end of the day I want to be able to say I contributed more than I criticized.